How to Declutter Your House in 30 Days
When we try to remove clutter, our first instinct is to start looking for clutter to pick up and take away.
Decluttering like that never works very well. The secret is to approach the problem in a way we would regard as back-to-front.
Let's face it, everything in your house was bought for a reason - and having bought it, we feel an obligation to keep it. In order to DEclutter, we need to look at things from a different angle - then we'll be able to see our home more dispassionately and get a real understanding of what is clutter and what isn't.
We're going to work one room at a time. If you can do the whole house (room by room) over, say, a weekend, that's great - but you could do one room per week if that's easier for you.
Choose a Collection Point
You'll need a place where you can put everything that gets removed. That can be problematic if you're already short of space, but it is very important.
This decluttering method works because you concentrate on just emptying your rooms. You don't think about what will happen to the clutter items - because that will trigger attachment feelings and make it more likely you'll find a (tenuous) reason for hanging on to them! So it's important to have a place where you can leave the clutter items without worrying about eventual destination.
If you are really stuck for space, I'll suggest some alternatives at the end of this article.
Work One Room at a Time
You've chosen your room, now let's get started.
Method 1 - Clear the Room
This is the most effective way to get rid of clutter. Move everything out of the room, perhaps into the yard or into the next room. And I do mean every single thing, even things you're sure you want to keep.
If you don't have the manpower to do all that heavy lifting, choose Method 2.
Method 2 - Pen and Paper
If you can't physically move stuff, or don't have anywhere to move it to, then you'll use the paper and pen method. Get a large notebook and divide your page into two columns - "Essential" and "Loved".
Identify the Essentials
Now ask yourself, "what are the basic essentials in this room?" By this I mean, if it's the lounge room, you absolutely need some chairs. You probably also need a television and sound system, and something for them to sit on.
Go and get those items and bring them back into the room.
Or, if you're using Method 2, write them down in your "Essentials" column.
Don't include anything that's not TOTALLY essential to using the room. For instance, don't include Grandma's china cabinet, even if you adore it, because the china isn't used in that room.
Identify What's Loved
When all your Essentials are in place, you're ready for the next step.
Ask yourself, "what are the things that aren't essential, but I can't bear to live without?"
Go and bring those back into the room, (or write them down in the "Loved" column). This is where you can add Grandma's china cabinet!
Remove the Clutter
Everything else in the room is clutter.
Yes really! If it's not essential to using the room, or it doesn't bring you joy or trigger happy memories, it is serving NO useful purpose in that room. It doesn't belong there!
It is possible you like some of that clutter enough to keep it anyway. It's also possible that some of the leftover items are needed in other rooms. But don't make that decision yet. You'll get a second chance to review later, so be ruthless!
Pick up and remove everything that you haven't written down - and I mean everything. No second thoughts allowed. Take all these items to your collection point.
Now rearrange the furniture in your room, with the clutter gone. When you are happy with it, move on to the next room and repeat the process. And so on, until the whole house is done.
If some rooms still feel a bit crowded, have another look at your "loved" items. You know you want to keep these things, but maybe they don't have to stay in the room they're in: see if you can move them around to make better use of the space.
And NO sneaking any items back from the collection point!!
Live With the Result
You can see that you could complete the whole decluttering process in a few days - so why do I say 30 days? Because the next step is to live in the house for three or four weeks in its new layout. That will give you time to get used to not having the clutter around, and you're less likely to yield to the temptation to put things back.
During the trial period, you may realize you left some essential things off your list - in that case, you are allowed to go and retrieve them from the clutter pile. But you are not allowed to go and retrieve things just because you miss seeing them around!
Tip: Store the clutter pile somewhere that can be locked up, so your family don't sneak things back either!
Reviewing the Clutter Pile
It's a good idea to delay looking at the clutter pile as long as possible. The longer you leave it, the less attached you'll feel to the items. Leave it long enough and you'll be wondering why on earth you wanted them in the first place!
When you come to review your clutter pile, consider each item in turn. If you are tempted to keep something, ask yourself (a) is it useful? and (b) do I love it?
Don't allow yourself to keep an item unless you can clearly state WHY you want to keep it.
Once you've been able to say why you want to keep something, take a moment to consider whether that reason makes sense! We often have all kinds of silly reasons for keeping things. One of the most common is, "It's too good to throw away" or "It's too expensive to throw away".
Remember, no matter how much it may have cost originally, if it's not adding any value to your life, it's not valuable.
It could be valuable if it is passed on to someone else, though: so think about selling the item on eBay or giving it to charity, where it can be of some value to others.
There are four ways to dispose of clutter: sell, give to family/friends, give to charity, or throw out.
Depending on where you live, you could have a number of options for selling. You could hold a garage sale or yard sale; go to a car boot sale; hire a stall at a market for a day; or sell on eBay (there are agents who will sell on eBay for you, if you don't have time). If you have high-value items you could ask an auction house to sell them for you, but bear in mind their commissions are very high.
If you're going to have a garage sale or yard sale, you may want to include everything in the pile in the sale (sometimes the things that sell will surprise you!). Then you'll only need to dispose of what's left.
Otherwise, divide your pile up according to the different categories, and take action to dispose of all the categories as soon after making your decision as you can.
No Room for the Collection Point?
If you're short of space, you may not have room for a collection point that will serve the whole house.
If that's the case, consider doing the complete process for a room you don't live in as much - perhaps your garage or your basement.The clutter in those rooms is less likely to be stuff you're attached to, and you won't need so much of a time lapse before you're able to get rid of it.
Allocate a full day for the job, and make sure it's not raining!
- Do the declutter using Method 1 (putting the items out in the yard).
- Put your Loved and Essential items back in the room, but don't arrange them - stack them up in the corner.
- Go and have some lunch.
- Go through your clutter pile and decide what to do with each item. Throw away useless items, and hop in the car and deliver the good stuff to a charity shop.
You now have one room in the house which you can use as your collection point for the rest.