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A Family Garden: The Importance of Gardening With Children

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Whether you have one or multiple children ranging in ages, they will all enjoy working in the garden. Digging, planting, watering, and harvesting plants can be a fascinating and fun daily activity for them when given the chance.

What child doesn't like to dig in the dirt? Giving them a job digging holes can be a fun and educational way to get them interested in gardening. Harvesting that longing to dig into something productive is a great way to keep your children from digging holes elsewhere.

Gardening with children requires a relaxed and patient attitude. Working with children is going to take longer, and the planting will be less straight, but the outcome will be the same. Fresh flowers, fruits, and vegetables to enjoy year-round planted by your family will greatly increase the likelihood of your children eating a larger variety of foods.

This article will provide some guidance and suggestions about how to introduce your children to helping out in the garden.

This article will provide some guidance and suggestions about how to introduce your children to helping out in the garden.

Children Helping in the Garden

Being child-oriented is a must. It is not fun for anyone to watch others garden, especially for young children. It is important to keep their attention spans in mind. Keeping the gardening sessions short will ensure that the child can finish what they started without getting bored. Break up gardening with running around and playing games outside before bringing everyone back together to start the next task. By breaking up the process, you are ensuring that you will be able to keep the younger children's attention, which will help keep them interested and learning about gardening.

Having child-sized tools is a great way to help them feel a part of the gardening process. Not only do you want to keep their attention, but you want the child to be able to use the tools properly and safely. A small hand will have a harder time using a rake or hoe that is much too large for them. Providing them with a small spade or sand rake is a great way to empower your child and make them feel like they are making a difference in the garden. Size and safety are important factors when allowing children to work in the garden with you.

Children who have the ability to finish their tasks will have a greater feeling of accomplishment and importance. You may not be able to get everything done in one sitting or even in a single day, and the garden may not look the prettiest; however, your children are learning the importance of gardening, where food comes from, and the responsibility that comes with taking care of something that needs tender loving care. Children who garden are more likely to try and enjoy eating a variety of fruits and vegetables.

When choosing seedlings for planting with children, it is a good idea to keep in mind the ease of growing those seeds as well as how much those seeds will yield later. Some great seedlings for youngsters are those that are large in size, have a high packet count, and are cheap. These types of seedlings will create less stress later when casualties occur and trust me you will have lots of casualties the first year. You may want to consider giving your child a few choices so they can help pick some vegetables or fruits for the garden as well. The more active your child can be in the gardening process, the more they will want to help and enjoy eating the harvests they have helped to create.

Easy Seeds for Planting With Children

Packet size and costs will vary depending were you get them.

SeedlingsPacket CountCostPlant to Harvest

Sugar Snap Peas

8 Grams (approx. 32 seeds)


Roughly 65 days

Beans (Romano Poles)

2 oz.


60 days

Matador Spinach

250 seeds


42 days

Walla Walla Sweet Onion

300 seeds


125 days

Garlic (Early Italian)

4-6 bulbs


90-150 days

There are bound to be casualties in every garden, and this is sure to be true in a garden where children are working. Having a reserve of seedlings is a way to help keep the casualties to a minimum. Young ones are bound to drop and lose seedlings as well as stand on and break flowers and other plants. The extra seedlings will help lessen the stress later if you find you need to do some replanting.

The above table showcases just a few plants that are great for children to plant. The seeds are bigger and they come with more than just five seeds in a packet. Peas and beans are also perfect because they can be eaten right off the vine if desired. The children will not have to wait until supper to enjoy the harvest. Beans and peas also ripen throughout the growing season so they can continually have something to harvest throughout the summer and into fall.

Carrots are another favorite of mine, however, the seeds are very tiny and are harder for little children to plant. If you are choosing to do carrots be prepared to have a large harvest of carrots that are going to be far from perfect. When we did ours I dug two rows and simply let our son sprinkle the seeds in. We ended up with smaller carrots, as most of the carrots were too close together to grow very large, however, he absolutely loves the baby carrots he grew. The carrots are not the size that they could have been, but my son learned how to grow vegetables and has grown a love for garden carrots. He refuses to eat store-bought carrots and I could not be more proud of that.

Raspberries and Other Easy Plants

Raspberry, strawberry and blueberry plants are some of the easiest plants for children to help plant. These plants can also be successfully planted in pots making them an ideal choice for those with little room for gardening.

Raspberries are super easy to grow and even come in thorn-less and ever-bearing varieties. Ever-bearing means they produce two seasons of fruits. You will get raspberries starting in June and ending in the fall. We bought our ever-bearing raspberries from American Meadows and I am in love. We bought three canes and now have six, as these heritage raspberries multiple quickly. We had raspberries starting in June and had berries still producing in November when we had our first Wisconsin frost.

Strawberries also come in ever-bearing varieties and are a great choice for container gardens. The ever-bearing varieties do especially well in containers as they produce less runners. June bearing strawberries are also available and planting both would vastly increase your strawberry harvest. To increase the chance of runners pinch off early season flowers to encourage the plant to continue growing.

Blueberries are a favorite in my house however, they can be very difficult to start. They need very specific soil conditions to thrive, but once thriving they are easy to maintain. Blueberries require two different varieties of plants to cross pollinate and produce fruit. They will also need two to three years of growing before producing a good amount of fruit. Despite the slow first year or two, blueberries are a great investment for gardening. Like the other berries, blueberries also come in an ever-bearing variety. Blueberries have a wide range of varieties including including early, mid, and late blooming fruits. Getting a few of each plant ensures that you will have an endless supply of blueberries throughout the entire growing season.

Potatoes are also easy to plant, grow, and are very low maintenance. Potatoes need very little work, compared to the abundant harvest you will receive. These plants are not as cool for children to watch, as most of the work happens underground, however watching their face when they upturn the potatoes at the end of the harvest is priceless.


Working With Children in the Garden

Planting with children may mean crooked lines, casualties, and more trips to the garden or store, but the educational and family value is worth the trouble. If your children are too young or are emotionally attached to their work you can always go back and straighten the rows or replant seeds when they are away, if that is of great importance to you. By discreetly fixing the beds when the children are not looking you get your desired results without losing your child's desire and interest to garden.

It's important to encourage your children to continue to learn and grow in the garden without hurting their feelings or being negative. If you want your children to fall in love with gardening and the plants you are growing, it's important to not only encourage them, but to accept their help with the abilities that they have. Eventually, with your help, your child will be able to create straighter rows and the right depth for each seed. Time and continued encouragement is sure to create a happy little gardener.


Growing and Eating Your Harvest

Giving your children the job of picking, washing, and preparing the fruits and vegetables from the garden allows them to see how and where their food comes from. Watching their tiny seeds sprout to little plants to the end result of beautiful fruits and vegetables is a way for children to connect with nature and learn about the process of growing plants. Knowing that they helped grow their own food brings a greater desire to eat and enjoy the fruits of their labor

If you can avoid influencing your children on what they might like to eat and let them decide on their own, you may be surprised by how adventurous they can be. Watching how you portray your body language and facial expressions when serving certain foods, you can help your child keep an open mind about everything they try. Showing your child that you are leery about them liking certain foods will most likely result in that child not liking or even trying those foods.

Having children help in the garden may be just the ticket for those picky eaters in your house. After working the summer in the garden they will want to enjoy the foods they worked so hard to grow.

© 2012 Cholee Clay


Linda Bryen from United Kingdom on February 23, 2018:

Great idea for children to learn about gardening. I think it is much better for kids to do gardening rather than being stuck indoors watching television or playing games. Also the fresh air is good for them. Great article and well done.

Cholee Clay (author) from Wisconsin on April 29, 2012:

rebeccamealey-We always helped my dad with the flower gardens and having kid sized tools were so much easier to use. Thanks for the votes and sharing.

Rebecca Mealey from Northeastern Georgia, USA on April 29, 2012:

You are so right, what kid doesn't love digging in the dirt. Good idea about the kid sized garden tools. I see those a lot!The kids will just love watching the seeds germinate. Such self satisfaction. Voted up and socially shared!