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Your Bedroom Needs These 12 Essentials Now

Linda is a seasoned writer and home-decorating authority. She loves sharing design trends, decor ideas, and useful tips with her readers.

Your bedroom. It’s a refuge from daily stress, a place to hide from the kids and a nighttime sanctuary designed to encourage total rest and relaxation. But is your bedroom really all that? If it is lacking in any of these areas your bedroom is not living up to its full potential. Don't worry, we have some clever and easy ways to transform your bedroom into the ultimate retreat that you’ll never want to leave.

1. A Distinctive Personality

A theme is perfect when you’re decorating a child’s bedroom but adults need to steer clear of kitsch and instead focus more on creating a particular mood or style for the space. Your bedroom is the one room in your entire home that should reflect who you are and what you like.

Flip through design magazines and find elements and inspiration to create your personal haven. You don’t have to go overboard or spend a fortune. By adding a few simple items you can easily make your bedroom an extension of your personality.

This monochromatic design adds dramatic personality with a hint of Hollywood Regency.

This monochromatic design adds dramatic personality with a hint of Hollywood Regency.

2. Piles of Pillows

The exact number of pillows vary from person to person. A bed layered with beautiful pillows adds a comfortable and welcoming atmosphere when arranged properly. You obviously need at least two bed pillows. Beyond that it’s totally up to you. The next layer is typically additional bed pillows outfitted in shams that either match or complement your comforter or duvet cover. You can stack them on top of your bed pillows or prop them against the wall or headboard.

For an extra elegant look, lean two or three European squares along the back of the bed and dress them in decorative shams. Layer standard or king size bed pillows propped against the Euro shams. The final layer consists of several smaller decorative boudoir pillows in a variety of shapes, such as bolsters, oblong, square or round. Arrange them neatly against the bed pillows.

Lots of pillows make you bed look just like an elegant hotel room.

Lots of pillows make you bed look just like an elegant hotel room.

3. Cozy Seating

Sure, you can perch yourself on the edge of the bed but wouldn’t it be nice to have a dedicated place to sit to take off your shoes at the end of the day or curl up with a good book? Better yet, if your bedroom can spare the space create an intimate seating area to take an afternoon tea, relax after work or enjoy a private conversation with your significant other.

Whether your bedroom is large or small you can add a cozy seating area.

Whether your bedroom is large or small you can add a cozy seating area.

4. Zero Tech Distractions

In order to make your bedroom a place to rejuvenate it makes sense to keep modern technology completely out of the picture. You should have at least one room in the house to get away from everything—including texting. Besides, technology is not terribly attractive. A television and computer in your bedroom will most likely ruin the overall design aesthetic. Spend your newly-minted free time meditating or reading a best-selling novel. It will do wonders for your psyche.

Remove technology from your bedroom to create a peaceful and relaxing environment.

Remove technology from your bedroom to create a peaceful and relaxing environment.

5. Warmth Underfoot

These days, many homeowners are opting for solid surface flooring like hardwood and tile throughout the house. So, how can you warm up your bedroom without installing carpet? Position a beautiful area rug under the bed. A stylish rug can add color and pattern to your bedroom and keep your tootsies toasty on cold winter mornings. If you don’t have the budget for a large area rug purchase two smaller rugs and place them on either side of the bed.

Add an area rug for visual and real warmth underfoot.

Add an area rug for visual and real warmth underfoot.

6. Accessories You Love

Nothing is more comforting than surrounding yourself with the things that have a personal connection to your life and make you smile. Remember to keep bedroom accessories simple and uncluttered. Resist the urge to display an extensive collection of family keepsakes. A few curated pieces are actually all you need to make the space your own. If you’re a globe trekker include cherished pieces from your travels to remind you of exotic locales you’ve visited.

Personal accessories create a unique sanctuary.

Personal accessories create a unique sanctuary.

7. Functional Nightstands

Nightstands are a must for your bedroom. However nightstands that serve multiple purposes are even better. Look for attractive pieces that match the style of your room. Nightstands with a small drawer and a cabinet or shelf below provide storage for jewelry, tissues, a flashlight, books and beauty products.

Keep the surface clear for your alarm clock, glasses, a water carafe and bedside lamp. Create a sense of balance by placing a nightstand on either side of the bed. Your nightstands don’t have to match—in fact it’s more fun to mix things up. Just make sure each one on either side of the bed are roughly the same height.

 Nightstands that are practical also add a stylish vibe.

Nightstands that are practical also add a stylish vibe.

8. A Comfortable Mattress

Nothing on this list means a thing unless you have a comfortable bed to sleep on. Think about it. If you’re not getting a good night’s sleep you won’t even be able to appreciate your beautiful bedroom. Waking every morning with a variety of aches and pains definitely means you need a new mattress.

Choose a mattress that keeps you cool in the summer and warm in the winter and one that offers the right amount of support. Do your homework and research the different types of mattresses including inner spring, latex foam, memory foam, memory foam hybrid and air chamber systems.

Take your time to research the most comfortable mattress for your master bedroom.

Take your time to research the most comfortable mattress for your master bedroom.

9. A Stylish Headboard

Once your find the mattress of your dreams you’ll need to pick out a fabulous headboard to frame your new bed. While tufted upholstered, reclaimed barn wood or weathered iron headboards make a striking focal point they can be quite expensive. You can recreate the look of these trendy headboards for a fraction of the price.

  • Run a curtain rod along the wall at the head of your bed. Sew rod pockets onto several pillow shams. Insert the pillows into the shams and hang them from the rod to create a faux upholstered headboard.
  • Purchase hardwood flooring planks on closeout and install them directly onto your wall or a piece of plywood cut to the width of your bed. Mount the headboard to the wall via a cleat system.
  • Find a salvaged metal gate and hang it on the wall to replicate the look of an antique iron bed. Leave it in its distressed state or paint it to coordinate with your bedroom’s color scheme.
A DIY rustic headboard can be made on a budget.

A DIY rustic headboard can be made on a budget.

10. Sumptuous Bedding

Build your luxurious bed linens by starting with a mattress pad and the best quality sheets you can afford. Choose from pure cotton, linen, cotton-poly blends or microfiber depending on your preference and budget.

Layer on a lofty down comforter with fill weight suitable for year-round use. If you don’t want to bother with a comforter/duvet cover combination, purchase a stand alone decorative comforter in a solid color or pattern. In colder climates you may need a secondary blanket between the sheets and comforter. The result will be a sumptuous bed you can’t wait to crawl into.

You can create a luxurious bed on almost any budget to find great sale items or outlet websites.

You can create a luxurious bed on almost any budget to find great sale items or outlet websites.

11. Layered Lighting

If you are going to all the trouble to create a comfortable and stylish bedroom don’t you dare skimp on lighting. Subtle lighting layers will add the right touch to your relaxing boudoir. Start with general illumination such as a gorgeous chandelier positioned above your bed.

Bedside sconces or table lamps provide targeted task lighting for reading or computer work. Accent lighting can set the mood. For instance, consider installing dimmers on your overhead fixtures to soften the room's appearance and create a peaceful feel.

The bedroom requires ambient, accent and task lighting.

The bedroom requires ambient, accent and task lighting.

12. Calming Wall Art

Choosing artwork for your bedroom may seem like a daunting task but we’re here to tell you it’s really a piece of cake. Pick the wall spaces where you would like to display artwork. Measure those areas before you go shopping to ensure the artwork is the right scale for the space. Use artwork to add color to a dark or monochromatic color palette.

Use colors from artwork and coordinate fabrics and accessories to create a harmonious scheme. Keep artwork soothing and sophisticated to promote restful sleep. If you can’t come up with specific subject matter think about using an abstract image to convey a relaxing mood through color and design. An alternative approach is organic artwork that expresses a natural rustic feel.

Coordinating colors within the artwork creates a compatible look and soothing feel.

Coordinating colors within the artwork creates a compatible look and soothing feel.

© 2019 Linda Chechar

Start a Conversation!

Liz Westwood from UK on June 19, 2019:

That sounds like a good idea. I have a friend who has redeveloped her house to have a walk in room for storage off the bedroom.

Linda Chechar (author) from Arizona on June 19, 2019:

Liz, this article focuses on more style essentials rather than storage items. Many U.S. homes have built-in closets that organize clothing and accessories so bedrooms don't need as much extra storage furniture.

Liz Westwood from UK on June 19, 2019:

We have been thinking for a while about redoing our bedroom, so this article is very timely. I notice that you don't refer to storage furniture. Is that because wardrobes, cupboards etc. go in a separate dressing room area?