How to Clean an Old Headstone

Updated on April 4, 2016
How to Clean Old Headstones / Gravestones
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A Little Part in Preserving the Past

Cemeteries are where many of us choose for the our final resting place. It is the forever place where our loved ones will return to pay their respect to us, but as time passes, the headstone marking where we rest may become worn, discolored, covered with lichen, or even broken.

If you've been to a cemetery to visit a loved one, you probably noticed many stones, especially older ones, in desperate need of repair or at least a good cleaning. Some may be worn beyond readability, as well. There are steps that we each can take to ensure that the place that marks where our loved ones lie is as well taken care of as possible so that our children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren can continue to pay respect to their ancestors.

You may think that because the cemetery is a perpetual care cemetery, that the headstones would be maintained under that care; however, perpetual care usually provides for keeping of the grounds and regular maintenance of the overall cemetery. This may include cutting grass, planting and caring for trees, road maintenance, drainage, and some times straightening of the markers. Perpetual care cemeteries really only came into existence about 75 years ago and sadly, many old cemeteries have been lost. Even for those old ones that are maintained, more often than not, the stones are in desperate need of help.

The steps below will help you in cleaning gravestones as safely as possible to prevent further damage to the gravestone.

Types of Headstones

Most headstones are made up of natural stones which are comprised of salts and minerals. The most common types of headstones existing today are made of sandstone, granite, marble, and limestone. Due to its ease of maintaining a cemetery, flat bronze markers are becoming more popular in cemeteries, especially memorial parks.

The natural stone tombstones can withstand varying degrees of cleaning, with most early ones being able to tolerate very little. Limestone and sandstone are very soft stones and were used a lot in early cemeteries because they were easy to carve. (The Mohs hardness scale rates it having a hardness of 3-4.) Unfortunately, gravestones made from these types of stone often wear away faster, with many very old ones being no longer readable; this is due to the many environmental conditions. Additionally, for many sandstone markers, water or moisture would accumulate in its cracks and when temperatures dropped, freezing conditions would cause the stone to crack or break.

Marble was primarily used for headstones and monuments prior to the 1920s. Its hardness is rated between a 4 and 7. It is basically a recrystallized form of limestone. Some preferred marble because it withstood the elements slightly better than limestone and sandstone, but was still fairly easy to carve. The beautiful veining pattern was also a great draw. Unfortunately, environmental elements also affect marble and as a result, many cemeteries no longer permit marble headstones for outside markers.

The hardest of the natural stone type of monuments that you will see in a cemetery is granite, which is still widely used today. Granite has a hardness of 7-9 and can withstand a little more cleaning than the other types of natural stone; however, it still must be a very gentle cleaning. Most of the upright stones made today are created from granite.

Remember, it's not only the stone itself we need to preserve, but what is carved on the stone. After all, that is how we will all know who rests beneath.

Tools for Cleaning a Headstone

Before you head out to the cemetery, be sure to have some basic supplies with you. These supplies include:

  • Jugs of distilled water (or garden hose if water access is available)
  • Spray bottle / garden sprayer (new, never used for any type of chemical)
  • Natural bristle brush or nylon brush, varying sizes and stiffness
  • Firm toothbrush
  • Sponges
  • Craft Sticks (to gently remove lichens)

Check Local Laws First

Before starting on any headstone that is not a direct family member, be sure to check with local and State laws. In some areas, it may be illegal to do anything to a headstone that is not one of an immediate family member.

Take Precautions Before Cleaning a Headstone

Before you attempt to clean a headstone, you must first check its condition. If there is evidence of any of the following, DO NOT PROCEED with cleaning:

  • Any stability issues whatsoever
  • The stone or lettering has any evidence of flaking or parts of the stone falling away
  • Fractures anywhere on the stone
  • If anything even slightly suggests that the headstone is fragile or even slightly vulnerable
  • If gently tapping the stone or the base results in any hollow sound
  • A wooden headstone

If the condition of the stone appears to be okay, keep in mind the following basic suggestions when beginning to clean a headstone. It is important to note, that if the only reason to clean a stone is to remove lichens, algae, etc., it is not necessary as it may do more harm to the stone than good.


So, How Do You Clean a Headstone?

Cleaning Natural Stone Headstones

  1. Using water with different kinds and sizes of natural bristle brushes will require some patience, but it is the most natural and safest way to clean stones.
  2. To begin, thoroughly saturate the headstone with water. By using a spray bottle or even a pump sprayer, you can use less water and ensure a clean rinse each time.
  3. Begin cleaning the stone starting at the bottom and work upward. This will help to prevent any streaking and/or any additional staining from occurring than if you worked from the top down. Be sure to rinse the area cleaned often with the water.
  4. It is best to begin cleaning with the softest brushes possible and only gradually move to stiffer natural bristle brushes if needed. Remember, never use a wire or metal brush.
  5. If there are lichens or moss growing on the stone, gently scrape it with your wooden or plastic scrapers. Often times, will come off fairly easily, other times, it may need to be repeated.
  6. When using a brush on the stone, use random circular motions which also helps with keeping streaking at a minimum.
  7. It is possible to use non-ionic soaps to further aid in the cleaning, but the types that can be safely used are minimal. Unless you thoroughly research the type(s) and how to use it, do not use anything other than water and gentle brushing.
  8. Rinse the cleaned area often and thoroughly rinse it when you've completed the cleaning of the headstone.
  9. Repeat for all sides of the marker.

What NOT to Do When Cleaning a Headstone

When you follow the steps above, you'll be well on your way to preserving someone's marker longer. What we do not want to do is anything that will accelerate the wearing of the stone, discoloring of the stone, etc.


  • Wire bristled brushes
  • Metal anything
  • Abrasive pads
  • Pressure washers
  • Sand blasters
  • Power tools
  • Bleach
  • Acid or acidic cleaning agents (especially on marble or limestone) - should only be used by those properly trained working on non-calcareous stone [1]
  • Household cleaners including soap, detergents, Borax, TSP, anything you'd use to clean your home [1]
  • Any type of sealant

Remember - using improper cleaning materials can cause permanent and non-repairable damage to the headstones! Our goal is to preserve the headstone, not give it an accelerator to make things worse sooner than later.

So, now you have basic guidelines that will assist you in helping to maintain the headstones of your loved ones. Remember, though, that despite your best efforts, tombstones will rarely look new again. And for certain types of stones, such as marble, limestone, and sandstone, it is recommended that they not be cleaned more than once every ten years since each time a stone is cleaned, it essentially washes a small layer away.

I believe it's important to get our children involved and help them to understand the importance of keeping up the resting place of our loved ones, after all, they're the generation that will be keeping up ours.


[1] Walther, Tracy C. Review and Evaluation of Selected Brand Name Materials for Cleaning Gravestones.

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        John Dove 6 months ago

        Great Hub! You must have an ample supply of patience as well. Are you associated with any organization, e.g., genealogical society, that has a project the recording of cemeteries? Are you active on

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        dick hohenbrink 8 months ago

        Thank You for Your article. I have been noticing Markers being painter{ Old Sandstone} Can You give any input on the subject. My Grand Parents marker is from the late 1890 . Thank You.

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        Shelby Hinson 9 months ago

        I'm not sure, but I think the monument in question is granite or soapstone . It is the gravestone of my great grandfather who was in the Great Civil War.

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        ALISTAIR BAKER 19 months ago

        Thanks for the info. I am researching my family here in the UK, and have found various head stones dating back to the mid 1880's. They all seem to be of a sandstone variety, some very well preserved due to location in cemetery, ie protected from the elements. Others have not been so lucky, worn and faded letters , plus cracked and eroded faces.

        I will follow your instructions on the more durable ones and see what results I get. Good point to ask for permission from Local Authority/Town Council before progressing. Because of age they may well be protected and you could fall foul of local byelaws. So will make the call this Monday and start the ball rolling or not.Regards

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        Jim mc neill 20 months ago

        Would Oxyclean work

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        SmurfsAunt 23 months ago

        You should never ever use any type of brush on any type of headstone.

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        Louise Greene 2 years ago

        Thanks for this article. I have a stone to clean and had no idea how to go about it.

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        Corie Neumayer 3 years ago

        We discovered an old family tombstone...granite or sandstone . The words are flaking off. Is there anything we can do to preserve what is left?

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        Joe Fiduccia 3 years ago from Monroe County, PA

        This is honestly something I had never given much thought to. I appreciate the detail you went into, and will even ne sure to share your advice with our dad in Poland, who cares for several headstones that are in serious need of a face lift. Thank you!

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        RWW 3 years ago

        I have been cleaning and restoring old grave markers for a number of years. When the product Wet and Forget became available [in the USA] I was skeptical about using it on old sandstone or marble markers. I talked to the technical folks at Wet and Forget. I tried it on some old marble foot markers. It was very effective with no damage. It takes 3-6 months to see results and the results are dramatic.

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        Keely Deuschle 4 years ago from Florida

        Vivian-tmt-hnp, thank you for your kind words!

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        Keely Deuschle 4 years ago from Florida

        Hi LWhip, very, very true, especially with carved wood markers. I don't know if you had seen the other hub I wrote about recording a cemetery, but especially in a case like yours, this is something that might be helpful if it doesn't already exist.

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        LWhip 4 years ago

        Interesting article. Many of the old grave markings in our family cemetery are carved wood so we are very reliant on oral and recorded history, some of which is unfortunately incomplete now.

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        Vivian-tmt-hnp 4 years ago from USA.

        8:21am Friday 16 August 2013

        Dear KDeus,

        I really appreciate your sincere and precious essay.


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        Keely Deuschle 4 years ago from Florida

        CCCBit, I'm so sorry that you had the experience you did. I would have never thought about that hazard, but thank you for sharing it for others to consider and prepare if they think they may be affected. Couldn't hurt to carry gloves and an allergy mask in the kit. Thanks again for sharing your experience and tip!

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        Keely Deuschle 4 years ago from Florida

        Pgill, excellent tip. I have updated the article to reflect distilled water. Thank you for taking the time to comment!

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        Keely Deuschle 4 years ago from Florida

        Barbara, I'm glad this information will help you to clean your mother-in-law's grandmother's stone! Good luck with your project.

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        Keely Deuschle 4 years ago from Florida

        Raitu Disong, thank you very much. I'm glad you've found this useful.

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        Keely Deuschle 4 years ago from Florida

        marion_langley, thank you! Please just don't use too much elbow grease!

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        CCCBit 4 years ago

        I would like to caution anyone doing this to take great care not to hurt yourself! After cleaning an old stone with water and a soft cloth, without gloves, I inadvertently wiped my face with the back of my hand and blew my nose (with clean tissue!) before washing my hands. Soon thereafter I developed a severe rash on my face, not unlike poison ivy (and I had not encountered any plants that day). I had to take Prednisone for a week. I do have a respiratory sensitivity to mold, so I suspect it was carelessness on my part and some type of mold. So, use gloves, take care not to touch any part of your skin, and maybe wear an allergy mask if you suspect you might be susceptible to mold allergies. Otherwise, great tips!

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        Pgill 4 years ago

        Thas for a great article.... I would also go as far as suggesting to only use distilled water when cleaning stones which will also help against staining....

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        Barbara 4 years ago

        Thank you for the wonderful information. My mother-in-law was just asking me if we could help clean and straighten her grandmother's headstone. I know I have info on leveling a headstone but did not have this information.

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        Raitu Disong 4 years ago

        HI Kdeus, this is a very useful hub!

        Thanks for sharing:)

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        marion langley 4 years ago from The Study

        Thank-you for the helpful encouragments to apply a little elbow grease safely. The pictures were great! voting up!

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        Keely Deuschle 4 years ago from Florida

        Spraying anything on a stone, even if it's labeled as safe, would definitely make me nervous, especially if it's left there to wash off by itself. I don't have first hand knowledge about that product, but will have to look into before I'd feel comfortable acknowledging it's okay. There are several types of non-ionic soaps that can be used, but unless the readers first thoroughly researched which "specific" ones are safe, I did not want to suggest using them since one kind may be okay, while a similar one may not be.

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        denisefenimore 4 years ago

        There is also a product called 'Wet and Forget'. Spray one and let the wind and rain slowly do the work. Very safe, just not instant results.

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        Keely Deuschle 4 years ago from Florida

        Hi LensMan999, Thank you! I hope this guide helps a lot of people! I've seen too many people damage stones by using things that should never be used! Thank you again!

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        LensMan999 4 years ago from Trans-Neptunian region

        Cleaning an old headstone has now become very easy through your hub. You have provided with simple instructions that can be applied easily. Thanks a lot for sharing this wonderful hub.

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        Keely Deuschle 4 years ago from Florida

        Hi Dream On! That would be an interesting idea!

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        Keely Deuschle 4 years ago from Florida

        Hi Oscarlites, You're more than welcome! I hope this guide continues to help as you come across more family burial plots!

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        Keely Deuschle 4 years ago from Florida

        Thank you, Dream On! Have a great day!

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        Keely Deuschle 4 years ago from Florida

        Thank you, FlourishAnyway! It is so sad to walk into a cemetery that has not been taken care of, or even for those taken care of, how in dire need of some TLC the headstones are. I'm glad that you find this guide useful! Thanks for stopping by!

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        FlourishAnyway 4 years ago from USA

        Great information. Especially with so much interest in genealogy, many people are going back to family plots that had been long forgotten and are finding them in disrepair. This provides some direction in case they'd like to honor loved ones' memories with a clean-up.

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        DREAM ON 4 years ago

        What helpful tips in taking care of something so precious and sacred.Thanx so much.

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        Oscar Jones 4 years ago from South Alabama

        Just recently, as I have been involved in photographing family burial cemetaries. I see some turn of the century markers that are already eroded to the point of being non-identifiable. thanks for the hints from heloise, oops, "hints from KDeus" !

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        DREAM ON 5 years ago

        I never gave headstones any thought.I would think after all these years someone would of created a headstone cover to help protect against the elements.This would of perserved some of the older graves that now we can no longer see because of erosion over the years.Have a good day.

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        Keely Deuschle 5 years ago from Florida

        Thank you, J.S.! I am glad that you found this useful! I've heard of so many people trying to clean stones using methods that will damage the stone, so the more education that is out there to help preserve our history, the longer these headstones will last!

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        JS Matthew 5 years ago from Massachusetts, USA

        This is an awesome guide. Very complete. I have wondered what the best way to clean memorials was. Up and shared.


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        Keely Deuschle 5 years ago from Florida

        Thank you, peachpurple for commenting! Sometimes, if the moss doesn't come off easily, even with the plastic scrapers (they wear away before they damage the stone), you can even try a poultice that can help to soften the moss and lichen even more!

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        Keely Deuschle 5 years ago from Florida

        Thank you, Millionaire Tips! I do the same as you do when I photograph markers for transcribing a cemetery. I keep a "cemetery bag" in my car with all my "tools" which includes several brushes I use to brush away dirt, ant piles, etc. It took some time to become comfortable with cleaning a marker, too. Thanks for sharing your comments!

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        peachy 5 years ago from Home Sweet Home

        Useful tips on cleaning the headstone. Never thought so much about it. We usually use cloth and green scrubs with water to clean off the moss. Thanks. Great hub

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        Shasta Matova 5 years ago from USA

        What a thorough well, formatted article about how to clean headstones. When I take photographs, I don't clean the headstones at all, except to gently brush away any leaves or debris so that I can take the photograph. I am too afraid of causing more harm than good.